Do you wait or create?

We have 2 options in life

We wait
We create

Waiters wait for everything, they will get fit / apply for a new job / get themselves a date etc when they lose weight, they wait for someone else to make the first move, always waiting for the right time, to wait for when it feels just right…

Wait, wait, wait…

Waiters either get the wrong thing because indecision meant a bad choice or nothing at all because there was nothing left to get.

Creators make things happen. They go out, take action, speak to people – everyone and anyone, they have a game plan, they do something, making the first move, creating results, creating opportunities, and taking risks.

There are thousand different ways to create, some things will go wrong, and some things will be right. Creators pick themselves up and move on, they have no time to wait.

Most of us are a mix of the 2 depending on the area of your life and where you feel more confident.

You might be like me, a creator in your business, you put yourself out there, chase the dream, set goals and make a plan then do it, you are confident, powerful, going well in your career life.

But maybe your personal life you are waiting for the right person to come along, you want to make sure it’s the right one this time. You’ll just wait to be on the safe side, no point rushing these things, when the time is right and all that…

Or you could have the best personal and social life around. You are happily creating your home and family life, loving every minute of it.

But when it comes to getting up and going to work, there is nothing you can think of that is worse. You are waiting till everything is right then you might look at making that hobby you love so much a career.

One thing that you should never forget, whether you are a creator or waiter is:

Never, ever, SETTLE – NEVER settle for less than you are worth, and really you need to create that right environment, don’t settle for something just so you don’t have to wait for it, but don’t wait for everything to be in the right place before you make a start.

You will know what you are worth, because by now you know and understand your values (3rd email you ever got from me). If you don’t get my emails you can sign up here>>>

The 2 things we need in this world to get us what and where we want are: Confidence and competence.

Have confidence in who you are and what you are worth (values) ^^^^^

Learn competence from your past mistakes, move on and take the lessons with you.

To have both, you need to have done stuff. One so you can see what you have done and be proud to know you can do it again, and one so you can learn and move on.

So, are you ready to stop waiting and start creating?

Let me know what you are going to do

Jen x

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