Today it’s my birthday, 37 years of life experience, no regrets, lots of lessons, lots of experiences, lots of happiness, some sadness.
I don’t understand people who wish they were back in their 20’s or back at school or say ‘if only I was 10 years younger’
Those days are past, if you are looking back on them with happy memories that is amazing, fantastic, keep those memories but don’t forget to make more now. If you are looking back with regret at missed opportunities or regret, what are the lessons from back then? Put whatever you learned in to practice now so when you look back in 5, 10, 20 years you are not still looking back with regret.
We are alive (if you are reading this from the other side can you please let us know what it’s like!!) we can make any changes we want in life. Sometimes they are scary changes, sometimes fun, sometimes sad but they are changes you need or want to make to take you forward to happiness and towards your dreams.
Do me a massive favour and hit reply to this email and tell me, what is one fear that stops you from making a change?
Mine was not knowing how things will turn out. Will my business work? Will people accept me for being me? The conversation I had with Jake the night our marriage ended, I knew how that conversation would turn out, what I didn’t know was how my life would turn out when I was on my own.
It’s turned out pretty good so far… Not that I didn’t love him or love being married, but I didn’t love seeing someone so sad trying to make someone else happy…
There are so many things to look forward to, so many experiences I have every single day that make me smile, laugh, feel good…
I don’t know how things will turn out in the future, no matter how many times I have had my palms read, cards read, none of them have told me anything about my future… It’s a blank canvas and we get to make the decisions.
Have an awesome day
PS remember, hit reply and share your fear that stops you from making a change, you have to reply… it’s my birthday!