You say you want to look better so that you will feel better about yourself, so that you will feel more confident, happier.
You say you want to find love but it seems you don’t even love yourself…
How much are you prioritising yourself?
Do you eat for health?
Do you exercise or do activities that keep you healthy?
Do you have hobbies, interests that entertain you?
Are you learning new things everyday to develop yourself in to an even more amazing person?
If the honest answer to any of these questions is no (and that includes answers of hesitation, sometimes or not really) then you need to get a grip.
We comes back to that term ‘self-sabotage’.
The only person preventing you from being happy is you.
There might be people around you questioning you, doubting your abilities. My question to you would be, why they hell are they still around?
If you don’t love and respect yourself then why would anyone else? You do not need someone to ‘save’ you or entertain you.
The people around you – friends, family, partners should be there to compliment your life not complete it.
Think of people you have moved on from…
How did those relationships start out? What happened? Why did you end up moving away from it?
This is not just boyfriends / husbands / partners, this is friendships too. There was a reason they started and a reason they ended (not always a fall out, sometimes just drifting apart, moving on, a change of chapter in your life).
It’s time for to fall in love with yourself.
Surround yourself with people who inspire and motivate you to be better and want better.
You are the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with…
Make that average BIG, make it AMAZING. Make it that other people want you to be part of their 5.
It’s time to stop bullshitting yourself.
It’s time to take control and make you a priority.
Write a list of the 5 things you are least happy with.
Then write a list of the 5 things you are most happy with.
Using the 5 things you are most happy with, how can you use them to your advantage to change the things you are least happy with?
Write it down.
Make a plan.
Start working on it.
I want to know how you are getting on… So, do it today and let me know.